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The clitoris too

Touching the clitoris during penetration, without seeing it as cheating

15 min read

For a long time, “making love” meant only one thing: the back-and-forth of a penis inside a vagina, from start to finish. The positions you pick up from films, from confidences or from habit are built around that motion. None of them leaves a gap in which a hand can stay on the clitoris at the same time, and many couples therefore never think of it.

The obstacle described here isn't technical, and it's probably the most widespread in all of PlizME: believing that sex only counts if your partner makes you come without you touching yourself.

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  • Techniques
  • Bringing it to the Bedroom
  • Testimonials

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