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When orgasm takes time

When climaxing feels hard: common causes and things worth trying

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Not coming, or not as easily as before, is among the most common sexual concerns women report. This plate is for the women who live with it and for their partners: what is known about it, where it most often comes from, and what helps, with no pressure and no promises.

Orgasm may never have come, may no longer come as it used to, or may come alone but not with a partner. Doctors speak of “anorgasmia” or an “orgasmic disorder”; here, we’ll simply say difficulty.

Orgasm has never come, whatever the situation. Getting to know your own body often plays a part, and this is the case where support gives, on average, the best results.

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