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Kissing the vulva

Cunnilingus: start around the edges, approach the clitoris slowly, read each reaction

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Oral sex on the vulva is one of the most direct ways to stimulate the clitoris, and one that surveys associate with more frequent orgasms. This plate is for those who give it and for those who receive it: which gestures, at what pace, how to talk to each other, how to protect yourselves.

The large surveys on the subject don’t describe an ideal technique. Above all they show the place of the clitoris in pleasure, and the extent of the differences from one person to another.

These are associations, not recipes: receiving oral sex guarantees nothing. These findings simply say that the clitoris deserves time, and that conversation is part of the gesture. To locate each part of the vulva, see The body map .

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